👋 Namaste, my dear warriors of ambition!
This is Guruji Sunil Chaudhary — your Digital Success Coach, and today we’re not going to talk theory. We’re diving into a reality check that many professionals, especially high-achievers and digital dreamers, often overlook.
A question that echoes in the hearts of lakhs of employees worldwide:
🧠 “Can you work at Amazon, Uber, or Google and still have a life?”
If you’re wondering this — then this post is for YOU.
🎯 The Hook: Dream Job or Lifestyle Trap?
The moment someone says:
“I work at Google.”
“I’m in Uber’s core team.”
“I handle product at Amazon.”
People go:
“Wow! You’ve made it!” 🎉
But here’s the raw truth, my friend —
They’ve made it… where?
To success?
Or to a 14-hour schedule, mental fatigue, invisible golden handcuffs, and a life that’s constantly on “Do Not Disturb” mode?
Today, let’s tear the curtain open.
💼 The Glamour and the Grind: What Big Tech Really Feels Like
Working at tech giants like Amazon, Uber, or Google is prestigious. No doubt.
You get top-notch pay packages 💰
Swanky campuses, free food, massages, and bean bags 🛋️
You even feel like you’re changing the world through code, design, or data.
BUT…
Behind the glossy LinkedIn posts and photo-worthy offices, here’s what many don’t say publicly:
🔥 The Pressure is 24/7
You’re always on Slack.
You’re always checking that “urgent” email at 11:47 PM.
You’re afraid to say no to an extra assignment.
Why? Because there’s always someone younger, faster, and hungrier ready to take your spot.
🕰️ 14-Hour Days, Every Day
Especially in Amazon’s corporate culture — where “frugality” is a principle, not just a buzzword — long hours aren’t the exception. They’re expected.
Uber’s fast-paced hustle culture too isn’t for the faint-hearted.
It’s exciting… but exhausting. ⚡
Even Google — which is comparatively gentler — has its own internal politics, hidden competition, and mental exhaustion zones (especially post-layoffs, reorganizations, and startup-mode acquisitions).
👨👩👧👦 What Does “Having a Life” Even Mean?
When I ask people:
“Do you have a life?”
They often reply:
“Yes Guruji, I go out every Saturday night.”
“I have Netflix.”
“I order sushi on weekends.”
Sorry, that’s not a life.
That’s coping.
A real life means:
You have time to sit with your parents without checking your phone.
You play with your child without thinking about sprint deadlines.
You pursue hobbies with joy, not guilt.
You sleep 8 hours — not power-nap through the night.
You are not owned by your job, no matter how fancy the company name sounds.
🧘♂️ CBS Style Reality: There Are 3 Kinds of People
Let me categorize this, the CBS Way:
1. Career Slaves (नाम बड़े, दर्शन छोटे)
These are people who:
Work in Big Tech
Have money, brand, and LinkedIn claps
But are empty inside, disconnected from their soul
They confuse productivity with purpose.
They eat, code, sleep, repeat. 💻☕💤
But deep inside, they whisper — “What am I even doing?”
2. Balanced Builders (The 1% within the 1%)
Rare.
These are people who:
Have defined boundaries
Know when to unplug
Use the job as a tool, not an identity
Prioritize family, health, and inner peace
They may still work at Amazon or Google —
But their life doesn’t revolve around Zoom calls.
3. Lifestyle Designers (CBS Tribe)
These are my kind of people —
Coaches, creators, consultants, solopreneurs, digital empire builders…
They say:
“I’ll learn Digital Skills. I’ll build my own audience. I’ll grow slow — but I’ll grow free.”
No job title.
No politics.
No boss breathing down your neck.
They define their own Monday.
Their own KPIs.
Their own peace.
🏆 Truth Bombs from the Inside
Here’s what real Big Tech employees tell me in DMs and 1-on-1 calls (names hidden for privacy):
🗣️ “Guruji, I work at Amazon, but I cry silently every Sunday night. The week never ends.”
🗣️ “Uber’s culture is like a sports team. Either you perform or get benched. No mercy.”
🗣️ “Google’s politics are soft, but very real. Promotions are often popularity contests.”
🗣️ “I earn 50L+ per annum but feel dead inside.”
And I ask them:
“Is this the life you dreamed of when you were 20?”
They whisper: “No.”
🧭 So… Can You REALLY Work at These Companies and Have a Life?
Short Answer: Yes, but not easily.
You must:
✅ Set hard boundaries early
✅ Say no to glorified overwork
✅ Create side incomes/passions
✅ Avoid identity traps (“I am a Googler!”)
✅ Leave if your mental health is collapsing
Or…
🔥 Build your own empire.
One where your calendar aligns with your values.
Where your child’s laughter matters more than your boss’s praise.
💡 Guruji’s 5 Truths for You
Famous companies don’t guarantee fulfilling lives.
Money without mental peace is a scam.
Busyness ≠ Success.
Your life is not meant to be a to-do list.
Freedom is the new flex.
❤️ A Message to My Young Achievers
Dear 25-year-old software engineer,
Dear 30-year-old product manager,
Dear 35-year-old operations lead…
I know you’re building your dream.
But don’t forget to live while chasing it.
Take a walk without your phone.
Say no to the weekend call.
Create your own blog, podcast, or YouTube channel.
Learn digital marketing. Build your audience.
Get ready to be independent, not indentured.
Because in the end, you won’t remember the Jira tickets.
You’ll remember the joy of your child’s first word.
The walk with your aging father.
The dinner with your spouse where no screen glowed.
🚀 Final Reflection: Job Title or Life Story?
Working at Amazon, Uber, or Google is a chapter, not the book.
Don’t lose your plot in someone else’s story.
If you want to start designing a career that gives you both — income and inner peace…
🎯 Then come join the Digital Dharma Club — where we help you earn, grow, and live better.
You can start while you’re still in your job.
You don’t have to quit immediately.
But you must prepare the soil if you want to plant the seed of freedom.
🌟 Start Here:
✅ Visit CareerBuildingSchool.com
✅ Enroll in our Digital Success Bundle
✅ Learn branding, marketing, freelancing, coaching
✅ Build your side income
✅ Reclaim your life — one step at a time
🌺 Jai Sanatan Dharma
🌺 Vande Mataram
✍️ – Guruji Sunil Chaudhary
Founder, Career Building School | Digital Success Coach | Author of ‘Power of Thoughtful Action’
