ЁЯСЛ Namaste, my dear warriors of ambition!
This is Guruji Sunil Chaudhary тАФ your Digital Success Coach, and today weтАЩre not going to talk theory. We’re diving into a reality check that many professionals, especially high-achievers and digital dreamers, often overlook.
A question that echoes in the hearts of lakhs of employees worldwide:
ЁЯза тАЬCan you work at Amazon, Uber, or Google and still have a life?тАЭ
If youтАЩre wondering this тАФ then this post is for YOU.
ЁЯОп The Hook: Dream Job or Lifestyle Trap?
The moment someone says:
тАЬI work at Google.тАЭ
тАЬIтАЩm in UberтАЩs core team.тАЭ
тАЬI handle product at Amazon.тАЭ
People go:
тАЬWow! YouтАЩve made it!тАЭ ЁЯОЙ
But hereтАЩs the raw truth, my friend тАФ
TheyтАЩve made itтАж where?
To success?
Or to a 14-hour schedule, mental fatigue, invisible golden handcuffs, and a life thatтАЩs constantly on тАЬDo Not DisturbтАЭ mode?
Today, letтАЩs tear the curtain open.
ЁЯТ╝ The Glamour and the Grind: What Big Tech Really Feels Like
Working at tech giants like Amazon, Uber, or Google is prestigious. No doubt.
You get top-notch pay packages ЁЯТ░
Swanky campuses, free food, massages, and bean bags ЁЯЫЛя╕П
You even feel like youтАЩre changing the world through code, design, or data.
BUTтАж
Behind the glossy LinkedIn posts and photo-worthy offices, hereтАЩs what many donтАЩt say publicly:
ЁЯФе The Pressure is 24/7
You’re always on Slack.
YouтАЩre always checking that тАЬurgentтАЭ email at 11:47 PM.
You’re afraid to say no to an extra assignment.
Why? Because thereтАЩs always someone younger, faster, and hungrier ready to take your spot.
ЁЯХ░я╕П 14-Hour Days, Every Day
Especially in AmazonтАЩs corporate culture тАФ where тАЬfrugalityтАЭ is a principle, not just a buzzword тАФ long hours arenтАЩt the exception. TheyтАЩre expected.
UberтАЩs fast-paced hustle culture too isnтАЩt for the faint-hearted.
ItтАЩs excitingтАж but exhausting. тЪб
Even Google тАФ which is comparatively gentler тАФ has its own internal politics, hidden competition, and mental exhaustion zones (especially post-layoffs, reorganizations, and startup-mode acquisitions).
ЁЯСитАНЁЯСйтАНЁЯСзтАНЁЯСж What Does тАЬHaving a LifeтАЭ Even Mean?
When I ask people:
тАЬDo you have a life?тАЭ
They often reply:
тАЬYes Guruji, I go out every Saturday night.тАЭ
тАЬI have Netflix.тАЭ
тАЬI order sushi on weekends.тАЭ
Sorry, thatтАЩs not a life.
ThatтАЩs coping.
A real life means:
You have time to sit with your parents without checking your phone.
You play with your child without thinking about sprint deadlines.
You pursue hobbies with joy, not guilt.
You sleep 8 hours тАФ not power-nap through the night.
You are not owned by your job, no matter how fancy the company name sounds.
ЁЯзШтАНтЩВя╕П CBS Style Reality: There Are 3 Kinds of People
Let me categorize this, the CBS Way:
1. Career Slaves (рдирд╛рдо рдмрдбрд╝реЗ, рджрд░реНрд╢рди рдЫреЛрдЯреЗ)
These are people who:
Work in Big Tech
Have money, brand, and LinkedIn claps
But are empty inside, disconnected from their soul
They confuse productivity with purpose.
They eat, code, sleep, repeat. ЁЯТ╗тШХЁЯТд
But deep inside, they whisper тАФ тАЬWhat am I even doing?тАЭ
2. Balanced Builders (The 1% within the 1%)
Rare.
These are people who:
Have defined boundaries
Know when to unplug
Use the job as a tool, not an identity
Prioritize family, health, and inner peace
They may still work at Amazon or Google тАФ
But their life doesnтАЩt revolve around Zoom calls.
3. Lifestyle Designers (CBS Tribe)
These are my kind of people тАФ
Coaches, creators, consultants, solopreneurs, digital empire buildersтАж
They say:
тАЬIтАЩll learn Digital Skills. IтАЩll build my own audience. IтАЩll grow slow тАФ but IтАЩll grow free.тАЭ
No job title.
No politics.
No boss breathing down your neck.
They define their own Monday.
Their own KPIs.
Their own peace.
ЁЯПЖ Truth Bombs from the Inside
HereтАЩs what real Big Tech employees tell me in DMs and 1-on-1 calls (names hidden for privacy):
ЁЯЧгя╕П тАЬGuruji, I work at Amazon, but I cry silently every Sunday night. The week never ends.тАЭ
ЁЯЧгя╕П тАЬUberтАЩs culture is like a sports team. Either you perform or get benched. No mercy.тАЭ
ЁЯЧгя╕П тАЬGoogleтАЩs politics are soft, but very real. Promotions are often popularity contests.тАЭ
ЁЯЧгя╕П тАЬI earn 50L+ per annum but feel dead inside.тАЭ
And I ask them:
тАЬIs this the life you dreamed of when you were 20?тАЭ
They whisper: тАЬNo.тАЭ
ЁЯзн SoтАж Can You REALLY Work at These Companies and Have a Life?
Short Answer: Yes, but not easily.
You must:
тЬЕ Set hard boundaries early
тЬЕ Say no to glorified overwork
тЬЕ Create side incomes/passions
тЬЕ Avoid identity traps (тАЬI am a Googler!тАЭ)
тЬЕ Leave if your mental health is collapsing
OrтАж
ЁЯФе Build your own empire.
One where your calendar aligns with your values.
Where your childтАЩs laughter matters more than your bossтАЩs praise.
ЁЯТб GurujiтАЩs 5 Truths for You
Famous companies donтАЩt guarantee fulfilling lives.
Money without mental peace is a scam.
Busyness тЙа Success.
Your life is not meant to be a to-do list.
Freedom is the new flex.
тЭдя╕П A Message to My Young Achievers
Dear 25-year-old software engineer,
Dear 30-year-old product manager,
Dear 35-year-old operations leadтАж
I know youтАЩre building your dream.
But donтАЩt forget to live while chasing it.
Take a walk without your phone.
Say no to the weekend call.
Create your own blog, podcast, or YouTube channel.
Learn digital marketing. Build your audience.
Get ready to be independent, not indentured.
Because in the end, you wonтАЩt remember the Jira tickets.
YouтАЩll remember the joy of your childтАЩs first word.
The walk with your aging father.
The dinner with your spouse where no screen glowed.
ЁЯЪА Final Reflection: Job Title or Life Story?
Working at Amazon, Uber, or Google is a chapter, not the book.
DonтАЩt lose your plot in someone elseтАЩs story.
If you want to start designing a career that gives you both тАФ income and inner peaceтАж
ЁЯОп Then come join the Digital Dharma Club тАФ where we help you earn, grow, and live better.
You can start while youтАЩre still in your job.
You donтАЩt have to quit immediately.
But you must prepare the soil if you want to plant the seed of freedom.
ЁЯМЯ Start Here:
тЬЕ Visit CareerBuildingSchool.com
тЬЕ Enroll in our Digital Success Bundle
тЬЕ Learn branding, marketing, freelancing, coaching
тЬЕ Build your side income
тЬЕ Reclaim your life тАФ one step at a time
ЁЯМ║ Jai Sanatan Dharma
ЁЯМ║ Vande Mataram
тЬНя╕П тАУ Guruji Sunil Chaudhary
Founder, Career Building School | Digital Success Coach | Author of тАШPower of Thoughtful ActionтАЩ











