Introduction: The Pain of Doing the Right Thing but Being Ignored
Let me start with a simple observation:
The world keeps telling us — “Do good, help people, create value.”
But the harsh reality?
The very moment you actually try to do it, nobody cares.
Nobody watches. Nobody listens.
I felt this very deeply when I watched an interview of Mr. Beast (one of the biggest YouTubers in the world). He said something shocking — his least-performing videos were the ones where he genuinely helped people. Think about that. The world claps for “noble deeds,” but their clicks go to controversies, fights, or cheap entertainment.
And when I heard this, I felt connected. Because I too had lived the same frustration.
My Story: Reading Books, Burning Midnight Oil, and Getting Nothing
When I started my channel, I poured my heart into it. I would read entire books just to create one valuable video. Sleepless nights. Dark circles. Dedication.
But the views? They barely moved.
Meanwhile, people jumping into drains, doing cheap stunts, or creating meaningless controversies were going viral. Millions of views. Sponsors. Fame.
And I kept asking myself — “Why? Why is the world so unfair?”
The First Realization: Stop Blaming Society
At first, I blamed people.
I blamed society.
I thought, “They don’t want knowledge. They don’t want growth. They just want masala.”
But here’s the truth that shook me:
👉 The problem was not “them.” The problem was my belief system.
See, most people live and act through their belief system — and belief systems are rigid. We don’t listen to learn; we listen to get agreement. We want validation, not transformation.
That’s why people resist new ideas. That’s why innovation scares them. And that’s why even the most noble content often gets ignored.
The Science of Why People Choose Trash Over Value
Here’s what I discovered after speaking with a psychologist and reading neuroscience studies.
Your brain has two major players:
Prefrontal Cortex (The CEO of your brain):
Handles problem-solving, planning, discipline.
Tells you to save money, work out, and stay focused.
Limbic System (The Irresponsible Guy):
Wants fun, instant pleasure, and easy entertainment.
Loves reels, junk food, fights, gossip.
Now here’s the battle:
All day, your Prefrontal Cortex gets exhausted solving real-life problems (job, bills, family, exams). By evening, it’s tired. Weak.
At that moment, who wins?
The Limbic System.
That’s why people scroll reels instead of reading. That’s why entertainment crushes education.
So, the problem was never that society is “bad.” The problem is that the human brain is wired this way.
The Second Realization: The Laws of Nature Don’t Bend for You
Here’s another painful but liberating truth.
The world doesn’t run on morality.
It doesn’t run on fairness.
It runs on laws of nature.
Physics. Chemistry. Biology. Psychology.
If you create valuable content and expect people to watch just because it’s good, you’re fooling yourself. The universe is not bending its rules for you.
Just like gravity doesn’t stop for your convenience, people’s attention won’t stop flowing to where their brain wants it.
The Trap of Waiting for Miracles
Many of us keep saying, “God will help. Things will change. One day, my goodness will be rewarded.”
But here’s the truth:
The Creator has already set the rules.
The rules don’t change mid-game.
If you want success, you have to play according to the rules of the game.
This is why I say: Believe in God if you want. But act like an atheist.
Why?
Because atheists don’t wait for divine intervention. They take 100% responsibility.
And that is the only way to win in this real, practical world.
Lessons from Failures: Nokia, AI, and the Danger of Rigid Beliefs
Look around you.
Nokia thought they were invincible. They refused to change. Result? Gone.
Today, many professionals resist AI. They say, “Nothing can beat human intelligence.” But jobs are already disappearing. Those who resist will suffer most.
The law is clear: Adapt or get left behind.
The Method That Saved Me: Become a Child Again
When stuck in a problem, I stopped blaming the world. I became a child.
What does a child do?
He asks. He explores. He experiments.
Instead of saying “The audience is wrong,” I asked:
Why do they prefer trash?
What is happening in their brain?
How can I design my message so that even their tired Prefrontal Cortex can still process it?
And that changed everything.
The Final Truths That Changed My Life
After years of struggle, two truths transformed my life forever:
Your belief system is not the ultimate truth.
If you refuse to change it, you’ll suffer endlessly. Flexibility is the real strength.Stop blaming people, God, or society.
The universe runs on fixed laws. If you’re not succeeding, your method is wrong. Period.
Once I accepted this, infinite possibilities opened up. If even one human being has achieved something, I can too — as long as I find the right method.
Practical Action Steps for You
Audit Your Beliefs:
Ask yourself: “Which beliefs of mine might be outdated?”Study Human Psychology:
Don’t just create for yourself. Create for how people’s brains actually work.Stop Waiting for Miracles:
Success is mechanical. If something isn’t working, tweak your method, not your prayers.Be a Child:
Stay curious. Ask questions. Seek mentors. Experiment.Adapt Relentlessly:
The world changes fast. Update yourself faster.
Closing Thoughts: Stop Blaming, Start Acting
Here’s the bottom line.
People will always say one thing but do another.
They’ll praise good deeds but reward cheap thrills.
They’ll talk about values but chase entertainment.
You can either sit and complain.
Or you can accept the rules of the game and design your life to win.
👉 Stop blaming. Start acting.
👉 Stop waiting. Start creating.
👉 Stop expecting miracles. Start following the laws of nature.
There is always — always — always a way to achieve what you want.
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Jai Sanatan. Vande Mataram.
